magic of words

Today i was driving and got stuck in a really bad traffic jam. waiting waiting for the traffic to move i wanted to write few words. yes people i understand that i cant drive and write especially in a jam. BUT yes BUT thanks to the "voice notes recorder" every thing is possible. I switched it on and went i said out my thoughts out loud. Hearing my voice singing my own thoughts was a weird experience. VVV weird but beggars cant be choosers... so there i went and said few word about first love which is wrong for all reasons but still it is love. (this is not the post about some other time will tell you). The traffic moved and so did i and happy me switched off the voice recorder. after playing office office for a while i met a person who i wanted to share the thoughts with.. the person heard my thoughts in one corner of the office and to my amazement and astonishment i realised that the person had tears in the eyes. BIG ones too.. so i quickly calmed the person and realised that my thoughts conveyed the person's dilemma (truly i did not do this intentionally). then like in the movies light falls on the hero/heroine and great mystery is revealed it dawned on me that my words could have an effect. i was elated. after some time i think i wanted to check my so called power and did the same with another person. This second person made a face saying "what is this???". There my balloon of happiness busted as again yes again the light en-lighted me to the fact that words alone are not magic it is a persons emotion and understanding that bring magic to words. what a lesson to learn when for years i believed in the magic of words.

Indian Election

Wow again its time for election in India, the biggest democracy. Though this would be the first time I will vote. Please before you speculate let me tell you the only reason I couldn't vote before this is because my dad you is in army was transferred regularly so no one place to get myself registered. Basically practical difficulties. After so many years I thought lets vote and got over with the formalities of registration etc. Now the question arises who to vote?????

I am definitely zapped........ I sought many opinions and every one had a different answer.. wellll every one at least agreed that there choice is based on past performance. Well grt but where can i check the past performances of parties?????? I searched the search engines, however there were more of propaganda of one person but no reasons to cross check it with...

Since I was lot alive for the many years since India got independence and politics frankly only started interesting me recently I started to check out the speeches and political agendas..... At least one thing I can surely say today is that I won't vote for BJP. I am still confused who to vote for but it is definitely not BJP. Yes I know BJP build roads, gave pension to military persons etc... But i can't bring myself to vote for a party which only promotes Hinduvtava. I am no muslim nor am i a hindu I AM AN INDIAN. therefore this basic ideology does not match. I don't want only one sect of people to flourish I want all to flourish and together. It may seem like an impossible dream but still I believe in it and it is the basis of my soul. I suddenly remember the lines " I am born free" and I think the ideology of bjp kills the soul of the lines. I hope they realise that when a child is born he/she does not know any religion or what is right or what is wrong. It is the society which determines all this for the innocent unsuspecting child. I wonder if the child knew all this would it still want to be born in this world?????

I have a few friends who are muslim and no I don't the religion because I asked I know because their lifestyle is different from mine as is my neighbours and probably the person reading this. Then why should I vote for a party who on these small differences insist on dividing the country.

OOPs I got diverted from the topic so how do i a first time voter decide who to vote for ????? read the election manifestos okkkkk will do tat but please tell me how many parties actually keep their promises after coming to power especially if it is a coalition??????// check the past record and from where????? well in this delima I unfortunately managed to speak to one of my friend who is pro BJP and anti congress.... I am not naming him but believe me when I say he believe in BJP passionately. Since we didn't want to fight we didn't discuss BJP but when it came to congress he did make some remarks which lead me to think where can I check the foreign policy, economic growth , per capita income of people etc during the time when any party was in power. Ya i don't blindly believe all that is told to me though I might not oppose it at that moment but still i research and then use the brains given by god to reach a conclusion same ideology goes for my friends. What I want to convey from this extra long article is just two things.1 plight of the first time voters 2. lack of knowledge or information provided to voters specially in this busy busy world.

OHHHh one more thing thank you BJP supporter friend it is only after speaking to you did I think I should pen down my thoughts. I still don't agree about BJP but thanks any ways.

Indian legislature

As you might know i am a lawyer and my job is to try to understand and interpret law. well i have failed to do the first in any case. and i can say confidently that all lawyers/advocates and brainy ppl who say that they have understood law ARE LIARS... no i am not kidding. I just came across an Indian legislature for overseas citizenship of India. For all those who want to know how to apply please stop reading this post here and proceed to the link "http://mha.nic.in/pdfs/OCIForm.pdf" . for every one else who wants to follow the Indian legislature joke please proceed. before moving ahead let me tell u that the aim of OCI is to let foreign national who have Indian lineage stay connected with India. ok now back to the legislature. It provides that any foreign national can apply and then follows the eligibilty. But in practicality a minor child (foreign national) of foreign national is eligible for an OCI but a minor child of an Indian citizen is NOT yes NOT eligible for OCI. so tats logic for u. please try and understand it. if u succeed u r LAWYER. don't believe me ok i will reproduce the content or else follow the ministry of home affairs link. oh yes before u go i experienced this tragedy and a piece of advise APPLY FOR PIO i.e person of indian origin if u dont satisy for OCI u r entitled to it.

Aarushi's case blunder

When the whole arushi case came to light there were sooooooooo many speculations and the one that i did not agree with was when they just blamed the father and then went to say that arushi a dead child had objectionable behavior. lots of hue and cry and the police officer was transferred that is it. Rajesh talwar was in jail for days and he lost his job and so did his wife both parents had to answer soooo many societal questions and raised eyebrows without grieving for their daughter. Now that cbi has said that RAjesh talwar is not involved will the media and police compensate the talwars for all the loss and damage? Oh ya they were just doing their duty and the media has a right to report etc. but have tehy all forgotten their duty??????. they are harping's about their rights and completely forgot about their duties,. In fact in this educated India i believe that state and media should pay the harassed and defamed talwars crores of ruppees as compensation. let us just go one more step forward and tel the world that in this day and era these type of tragedies do not occur in India. I an educated Indian am feeling so let down and disappointed by both teh media and government. shame on us as a nation.

mansher

On 29th may 2008 i was travelling for the first time to US. no that is not why i remember the date... my flight was at 2 am and we were just boarding the plane when my phone rang. yep my phone was on...... papa called and said u r a masi and baby and mother are fine. I just switched off the phone and wanted to burst out laughing. i managed to control but honestly i told all the passengers near me that i am a massi. dont laugh i was a massi for the first time. i wnent and met tehbaby and the first thing that hit me was that the baby is soooooo tiny . i for days waited that teh baby will wake up and play with us like they show in teh ads but frankly the ads lie. but after days of changing diapers and rocking the baby and growth spurts and new parents anxiety the baby started to nmake noises and noticing his mother and started to take his tough out every time he saw keerat. I was just so happy and furios I MEAN TEH BABY WAS A TV ADDICT. now that i have come back to india, i am told that he is growing fast. well just waiting for teh time he grows and says hey massi was that me in the photo ? mind you this is a grt experience. my observations in short
1. poor new mother
2.calm down new parents
3. Baby go to sleep for some more time
4. it is good to play with other persons babay hahahhahha

Harry Potter

Isn't it amazing that one book and one movie can make people crazy.......just say "Harry Potter" and everyone is interested ........did you see the latest movie....god i got the ebook I wish it is the original one............. OHhhhhhhhhh wen is the book due and all that.....welllllll I have learned at my own cost that no original book is circulating on net......... more so I have to only book the book now...........as for the movie I often wonder does it do justice to the book ........i believe no..... but the craze is still there so........ i assume it must have something which I a reader fail to appreciate...

Probably someone with a better mind could tell me about the craze and about the movie.. i for one am confused